What to wear….

on a long flight?

It’s that time of the year!  Schools are out, and families are planning summer vacations.  Whether the travel is by a car, a train, a ship or a plane…what to wear?  For me, comfort & convenience are the most important factors.  Since we’ll be going on a long trip by plane this summer, I wanted to share what I will be wearing on the plane.

With this very comfortable & stretchy maxi dress, I’ll add a jacket or a sweater…I get cold on the plane.  I also prefer a crossbody bag (vs a shoulder bag) to store travel documents for safety, and it allows me to handle a carry on bag and whatever else I need (usually food) without worrying about keeping the bag on my shoulder.

I usually have a large scarf for times when the jacket/sweater might be a bit much.  Of course, a very comfortable pair of sandals is a must, and I usually pack a pair of socks that I can put on during the flight.  If the flight is longer than a few hours, I also pack my small travel pillow and my kindle to catch up on some reading!

What are some of your favorite travel outfits?

I’m linking up with Patti for Visible Monday.  I will also be joining Jill and Adrienne on Tuesday for “How I wear My: Chic Traveling Outfit.”

I hope your weekend was a restful one, and I thank you for stopping by.

Dress:  Coveted          Jacket: Ralph Lauren       Scarf:  Juicy Couture

Bag:  Louis Vuitton      Shoes: Beverly Feldman

Red White & Blue

Wishing you a beautiful Memorial Day weekend!

I’m linking up with Patti @Visible Monday and Jill@Monday Mingle.  Check out the fashionable ladies!

Skirt: BCBGMaxAzria   Sweater: Ralph Lauren   Shoes: Prada   Bag: Louis Vuitton

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In honor of our fallen heroes…

This article was actually a personal e-mail correspondence to a friend, Mr. Gene Tuttle, in April 2000 while Captain Ellison served in the U.S. Army under the administration of then President Clinton.

Soon To Be Gone 
by Capt. Steven Ellison, MD

I am a doctor specializing in the Emergency Departments of the only two military Level One-Trauma Centers, both in San Antonio , TX and they care for civilian Emergencies as well as military personnel. San Antonio has the largest military retiree population in the world living here. As a military doctor, I work long hours and the pay is less than glamorous. One tends to become jaded by the long hours, lack of sleep, food, family contact and the endless parade of human suffering passing before you. The arrival of another ambulance does not mean more pay, only more work. Most often, it is a victim from a motor vehicle crash.  Often it is a person of dubious character who has been shot or stabbed. With our large military retiree population, it is often a nursing home patient. Even with my enlisted service and minimal combat experience in Panama , I have caught myself groaning when the ambulance brought in yet another sick, elderly person from one of the local retirement centers that cater to military retirees. I had not stopped to think of what citizens of this age group represented.

I saw ‘Saving Private Ryan.’ I was touched deeply. Not so much by the carnage, but by the sacrifices of so many. I was touched most by the scene of the elderly survivor at the graveside, asking his wife if he’d been a good man. I realized that I had seen these same men and women coming through my Emergency Dept.. and had not realized what magnificent sacrifices they had made. The things they did for me and everyone else that has lived on this planet since the end of that conflict are priceless.

Situation permitting, I now try to ask my patients about their experiences. They would never bring up the subject without the inquiry. I have been privileged to an amazing array of experiences, recounted in the brief minutes allowed in an Emergency Dept. encounter. These experiences have revealed the incredible individuals I have had the honor of serving in a medical capacity, many on their last admission to the hospital.

There was a frail, elderly woman who reassured my young enlisted medic, trying to start an IV line in her arm. She remained calm and poised, despite her illness and the multiple needle-sticks into her fragile veins. She was what we call a ‘hard stick.’ As the medic made another attempt, I noticed a number tattooed across her forearm. I touched it with one finger and looked into her eyes. She simply said, ‘ Auschwitz ..’ Many of later generations would have loudly and openly berated the young medic in his many attempts. How different was the response from this person who’d seen unspeakable suffering.

Also, there was this long retired Colonel, who as a young officer had parachuted from his burning plane over a Pacific Island held by the Japanese. Now an octogenarian, he had a minor cut on his head from a fall at his home where he lived alone. His CT scan and suturing had been delayed until after midnight by the usual parade of high priority ambulance patients.. Still spry for his age, he asked to use the phone to call a taxi, to take him home, then he realized his ambulance had brought him without his wallet. He asked if he could use the phone to make a long distance call to his daughter who lived 7 miles away. With great pride we told him that he could not, as he’d done enough for his country and the least we could do was get him a taxi home, even if we had to pay for it ourselves. My only regret was that my shift wouldn’t end for several hours, and I couldn’t drive him myself.

I was there the night M/Sgt Roy Benavidez came through the Emergency Dept. for the last time. He was very sick. I was not the doctor taking care of him, but I walked to his bedside and took his hand. I said nothing. He was so sick, he didn’t know I was there. I’d read his Congressional Medal of Honor citation and wanted to shake his hand. He died a few days later.

The gentleman who served with Merrill's Marauders

The gentleman who served with Merrill’s Marauders,

the survivor of the Bataan Death March,

the survivor of Omaha Beach,

the 101 year old World War I veteran,

the former POW held in frozen North Korea,

the former Special Forces medic – now with non-operable liver cancer,

the former Viet Nam Corps Commander.

I remember these citizens.  I may still groan when yet another ambulance comes in, but now I am much more aware of what an honor it is to serve these particular men and women.

I have seen a Congress who would turn their back on these individuals who’ve sacrificed so much to protect our liberty. I see later generations that seem to be totally engrossed in abusing these same liberties, won with such sacrifice.

It has become my personal endeavor to make the nurses and young enlisted medics aware of these amazing individuals when I encounter them in our Emergency Dept. Their response to these particular citizens has made me think that perhaps all is not lost in the next generation.

My experiences have solidified my belief that we are losing an incredible generation, and this nation knows not what it is losing. Our uncaring government and ungrateful civilian populace should all take note. We should all remember that we must ‘Earn this.’

Written By Captain Steven R. Ellison, M.D. US Army 

Dr. Ellison currently resides in Central Texas with his wife and children. He resigned from the Army in 2004 but continues to see many military retirees and dependents in the Emergency Departments he now attends.

Be safe everyone!

Inspirations & Awards

Inspiration can come from anywhere; nature, pinterest….well, okay ~ I tried.

I would like to thank couple of blogger friends for wonderful awards they’ve passed on to me recently.

First, The Blogger Appreciation Award from Jean @dross into gold.  Jean is a beautiful woman “of a certain age” as she calls it, whose love for her family is quite evident from her “about me” page.  She’s one of the most creative person I know.  She can create a fabulous one of a kind, stylish ensemble from thrifted finds.  So talented!  Thank you for thinking of me for this award.

In order to accept the award, I must:

1.  Thank the person who nominated me by linking his/her blog.

2.  Answer the four questions below

3.  Award the Blogger Appreciation Award to fellow bloggers

4.  Let the Bloggers know that you have nominated them.
 Questions:
 1.  How long have you been blogging?
      I started blogging since August 25, 2011. 
 2.  Why did you start blogging?
      I needed to find a way to cope with being an empty nester.
 3.  What type of blogs do you like to follow/read?
      I like all types of blogs…fashion, humor, inspirational, photography & travel.
 4. What is the one thing you’d like to improve on as a blogger?
      Just one?  
      Hmm…probably writing.  I’ve never been a good writer.  I’d love to write humorous posts and make you smile.
Now to the second award…
Don’t you just love the name of this award?  Living Passionately Award.
My gratitude for this award goes to Laura @astimegoesbuy.  Laura is a lover of all things fashionable.  She’s also a young 40ish, creative, vintage loving, beautiful lady living the life she dreamed of in Australia.  I’d say she’s definitely living her life passionately.  Thank you Laura for this award!
Now for the rules:
 1.  Take a deep breath.
        Done!
 2. Think about who you’d like to pass this on to.
        Done!  I’ll post them at the end of this page.
 3. Do something weird and out of the ordinary today.
        Done!  Ha, wouldn’t you like to know…
 4. Post the award someplace conspicuous…the underside of the hamper lid, inside of the lav door, at the bottom of the bird-cage.
       How about as a screen saver on my lap top!  Conspicuous enough?
       Note: I’m not sure about this one because I think conspicuous is opposite of “inside of the lav door?”
       ***Okay, Laura tells me this is a “tongue in cheek” statement…. I’m so dense! :)
Now, I’d like to pass these two awards to following bloggers:
1. Barbara @Mighty Inspiration.  Her inspirational blog lifts my spirits.
2. Bliss @stepping my way to bliss. A doll of a lady who loves her family & a rescued pup name Rockefeller.  Her sense of humor can be felt in her writings.
3.  SzaboInSlowMo @She Can’t Be Serious.  A wife and a mom to two teenage girls ~”desperately seeking humor in everyday life.”  Yes, she’s funny!
4. Mary Claire @mary claire studios.  She’s a mom and an artist from Orchard Park, NY.  So very talented!
5.  Tamera @Tamera Beardsley.  This is one stylish, elegant lady with an incredible talent for creating beautiful fashion accessories. Her photos are gorgeous, too!
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Thank you folks for stopping by!
Jacket & Pants:  BCBGMaxAzria      Top: Ralph Lauren
Bag: Balenciaga         Shoes:  Michael Kors

Linen & Leather

Hi everyone!

I hope your weekend was a restful one.  Hubby and I celebrated our 28th anniversary Saturday.  It’s been a wonderful journey full of life’s joys and trials….I wouldn’t trade it for the world.

You don’t marry someone you can live with, you marry the person who you cannot live without. ~unknown 

In honor of our anniversary, a few humorous quotes on marriage:

No man is truly married until he understands every word his wife is NOT saying.

An archaeologist is the best husband a woman can have. The older she gets the more interested he is in her.

When a husband brings his wife flowers for no reason, there’s a reason. - Molly McGee

A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband. - Honore De Balzac

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband, while a man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

When a man opens a car door for his wife, it’s either a new car or a new wife.

A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man. - Lana Turner

I’m linking up with Patti for Visible Monday and Kristin for Monday Mingle! Go check out the lovely ladies!

Thanks for dropping by!

Dress & Shoes:  Michael Kors    Sweater: BCBGMaxAzria     Bag:  Prada

Maxi love ~

Hello friends!

I have absolutely fallen in love with maxi skirts/dresses this season.  Why?  First and foremost,  you don’t have to shave!  Second, they’re so comfortable!  Third, they’re forgiving…should you decide to binge on a world’s worst best burger, no buttons or zippers to undo! :)

My shopping get-up…. and I’m ready for a big dinner to follow ~ oh, yeah!

Isn’t Tobi adorable?  He loves his mama! 

God will prepare everything for our perfect happiness in heaven, and if it takes my dog being there, I believe he’ll be there. ~ Billy Graham

Have a wonderful weekend everyone!  Thank you so much for visiting!

Skirt:  Red Haute         Top:  Luxe           Shoes & Bag:  Burberry

on the safe side ~

Hello folks!

How’s about me lookin’ grown-up today?!  Translation ~ simple and bit boring.  Note: bad hair day & my trusty hair clip!

DID YOU KNOW…

If you try to say the alphabet without moving your lips or tongue, every letter will sound the same?

You’re trying it now, aren’t you? Haha!

Stewardesses is the longest word that is typed with only the left hand.

Are you typing this in your head? :)

That you burn more calories eating celery than it contains? The more you eat the thinner you become!

A 1 minute kiss burns 26 calories!

You burn more calories sleeping than watching TV!

In essence, if you eat celery, kiss a lot, and sleep more, you’ll lose a ton of weight! ;)

Have a wonderful day!!

Blouse & Pants:  Ann Taylor        Shoes: Michael Kors        Bag & Shades:  Chanel

 

Peach ruffles…

Good Monday everyone!

I hope your Mother’s Day weekend was a special one.

I picked up this top from a small boutique in town…one of those impulsive buys.  I love the color and the ruffles and it’s gauzy/linen-like material.

But, after reviewing these photos, I felt the top was a bit youthful…so, it’s in my daughter’s closet as of yesterday.

Top :  ?  (gave it to daughter without getting the name)        Skirt:   BCBGMaxAzria

Shoes:  Charles David          Bag:  Dolce & Gabbana

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It’s Monday, and I’ll be linking up with Patti for Visible Monday and Nicole for Monday Mingle.  Check out the ladies!

Thank you for dropping by, and have a terrific week!

A bittersweet day…

Being a mother is learning about strengths you didn’t know you had, and dealing with fears you didn’t know existed.  ~Linda Wooten

I lost my mother to cancer in August of 1993…she was only 54.   My hero.  I miss you so much.

On a sweet note…in honor of Mother’s Day, I have guest contributors…my son & daughter.

 A word or two about mother…

As people may know, Google has infiltrated American vocabulary with its success as a global search engine. It isn’t that uncommon to hear people throw out the word “google” amidst a conversation not as a reference to a company, but a verb meaning “to search.” Let’s be honest, I feel like we’ve all googled ourselves to see how relevant we were in the scheme of things. Some singletons out there might have googled a blind date in lieu of a background check. It’s extraordinarily easy to do. That being said, I didn’t realize that Google itself was none to happy to have this achievement unwillingly thrust upon them. Having happened to so many other pioneering companies such as Hoover (more synonymous with “vacuum” than the brand itself) and Band-aid (which I often use to refer to anything that will cover up a scratch or cut or even a short term solution for a problem), they probably felt that their name might fall into the ranks of the generic and their name would lose it’s value.

I know…what does any of this have to do with mother? There are few words in the English language that remain constant in use and meaning. But “mother” certainly is not one of them. It has been around since the beginning of language and has not deviated in meaning for thousands of years, especially in the sense that most of us use it today. Sadly, it’s meaning has only been recently recognized by myself. Although I like to view myself as completely independent, I see myself constantly reminded of my mother. Having just left home after a recent visit with my family, I noticed that my clothes weren’t quite as soft and scented as they are when my mom does them despite using the same fabric softener as she does. Although I’ve seen her do it a million times and know exactly what ingredients are in it, my omelets are always missing something and never quite taste as good. After months of training my hair stylist on the do’s and don’ts of styling my hair, it’s never quite as good as a cut from mom. No matter how far away from home I might be, reminders of her follow me everywhere I go.

This seems like a dislocated comparison between the word “google” and the word “mother,” but I assure you that it isn’t. When I use the word “google,” I admit that I am using it as a generic form of the word “search” regardless of what search engine you pledge loyalty to. That is a mistake that should never be made with “mother.” A “mother” isn’t simply a label for a woman in relation to a child. It means so much more than that. In my experience, my mother is someone who has and will be an integral part of my life no matter how old I am or where I am located. She’s the person who would stop at nothing to afford me the best possible care and boundless affection as a child. No matter how idiotic I behave or how poor my judgment is, she never thinks any less of me as a person. I know I can count on her when all others have abandoned me. There are few people in this world that you could say that about.

So, on this auspicious day, I’d like to thank my mother for all that she has done and will do for me. I want you to know how grateful I am to call you my mother, and I want you to know how much you mean to me and our family will never be lost. Although googling themselves may be an easy task for most, I’d like to see someone try and mother themselves. It would be an impossible task at best.

PS. I am in no way referring to the connotation of “google” that was implied in the T-shirt I recently purchased and featured on my mother’s blog.    ~ Matt

 

 

 

 

To my wonderful Mom,

Happy Mother’s Day!  God truly blessed me with the best mother a daughter can hope for, and there’s not a day that passes that I don’t realize how lucky I am to have you in my life. I can’t imagine where I would be without your wisdom and guidance the past 23 years.  Whether its your input on my clothes or my terrible haircuts to the more serious life decisions I’ve had to face,  you’ve never left my side or led me down the wrong path.  Words can never describe just how important you are to me. You’re an inspiration as a wife and as a mother,  you are someone I hope to become one day.  If I ever have a daughter, I can only hope to have half the patience and grace that you’ve shown me.  Happy Mother’s Day to my very special Mom, my shopping buddy, and my best friend.  I love you!   ~Jordan

My pride and joy.  I love you both more than life itself.   ~Mom

Have a wonderful Mother’s Day everyone!

In the middle of…

pink and orange…coral!

pink petals on the outside & coral on the inside

pink on the outside & coral on the inside

Happy weekend everyone!

Hubby and I were out and about today running errands, and enjoying the beautiful weather and scenery.  I  sometimes complain about how far we have to drive to go into the city, but I gotta tell ya, I’m truly blessed to be living in a town surrounded by mountains and lakes.

This is about the cutest thing I’ve ever seen….

Happy Mother’s Day weekend everyone!

Jeans: Joe’s Jeans       Linen Shirt:  Thread

Bag:  Louis Vuitton     Shoes:  Coach